When you’re cooking for a large group, ingredients can often feel like a minefield of allergies, dietary restrictions, and preferences. Many people look at this and decide, “anyone with allergies should bring their own food.” While this is often a safe option, we wanted to provide you with a few tips and tricks for making your meals more inclusive for everyone at the table.
Allergies can range greatly in severity, and it is important to make sure that everyone feels safe with the food they are eating. The best way to ensure an allergen is not in someone’s meal is never to bring that ingredient into the kitchen in the first place. Try to account for allergens when planning your menu; for example, you wouldn’t want to host a seafood boil for guests with a shellfish allergy or serve pecan pie if someone has a nut allergy. Choose recipes that everyone will enjoy and can eat without major substitutions.
Sometimes, substitutions are necessary. In this case, try to apply the substitution across the board. If someone is allergic to dairy, consider swapping butter for olive oil or coconut oil. If eggs are an issue, in many cases where eggs are used for frying or baking, aquafaba (the liquid from a can of chickpeas) can be a great substitute. Here is a quick and easy recipe for an egg-free mayonnaise that can be used to make all sorts of allergen-friendly dishes.
Most Common Allergies
The most common allergies are nuts, eggs, dairy, soy, gluten, and shellfish. Some of these are easier to avoid than others. Here are some creative substitutions for each. Be sure to do your research on how each substitution may impact your recipe.
- Nuts: sunflower seeds, pumpkin seeds, pretzels, or granola
- Eggs: aquafaba, applesauce, mashed banana, tofu, or yogurt
- Dairy: almond milk, cashew milk, coconut milk, oat milk, or soy milk
- Soy: coconut aminos or balsamic vinegar
- Gluten: almond flour, buckwheat flour, coconut flour, quinoa flour, rice flour, sorghum flour, or tapioca flour
- Shellfish: chicken, pork, tofu, or mushrooms
Cooking for a Large Group
When cooking for large groups, you may find that guests have different allergies and dietary restrictions. While this makes things more complicated, there’s no need to throw in the towel. Start by making a list of all allergens and restricted foods, ordered by severity (with self-imposed restrictions always coming second to allergies).
You can also try offering multiple entrée options: one that accommodates allergies and one that may not. If you serve anything with an allergen, clearly mark and communicate it. And always ensure there has been no cross-contamination in cooking or serving.
How to Avoid Cross-Contamination.
If you can’t settle on a menu that fully avoids allergens, it’s essential to prevent cross-contamination. When storing foods in your fridge or pantry, keep allergen-containing ingredients sealed and separate until use.
Start by preparing food for the most severe allergies, and avoid adding those allergens entirely if possible. From there, you can work in batches, making a version of your meal for each set of restrictions. If you can prepare one allergen-safe batch and one clearly marked “contains allergens” batch, this will make it much easier for guests to know what’s safe to eat.
When serving, give priority to those with allergies and restrictions so they receive the correct food. If serving family-style or buffet-style, provide separate serving utensils for allergen-free and allergen-containing dishes.
More resources
Here are some more trusted resources for a deeper look at food allergies:
FDA: Nine Major Food Allergies
Harvard Health: Six Tips for Managing Food Allergies
USDA – Food Allergies: The “Big 9”





